latest tweet from @Ms_Tomilola_S
*A Good Cause* Please Please Please Support My Sis Raise Money For Great Ormond Street Hospital! She will be walking from London to Brighton 😳🙆 How many could say they would do this especially in the name of charity…. Support her buy donating, every little helps 😊 Thank You & Spread The Word www.justgiving.com/Angella_Okome #LondonToBrightonChallenge #GoodCause #ChildrensCharity #JustGiving #EveryLittleHelps

*A Good Cause* Please Please Please Support My Sis Raise Money For Great Ormond Street Hospital! She will be walking from London to Brighton 😳🙆 How many could say they would do this especially in the name of charity…. Support her buy donating, every little helps 😊 Thank You & Spread The Word www.justgiving.com/Angella_Okome #LondonToBrightonChallenge #GoodCause #ChildrensCharity #JustGiving #EveryLittleHelps

vescoeblake:

#bible #dailybread #cake #rihanna #Jesus #party #redvelvet #hovis #brownBread #carbs (Taken with Instagram)

What I aim for!!!

vescoeblake:

#bible #dailybread #cake #rihanna #Jesus #party #redvelvet #hovis #brownBread #carbs (Taken with Instagram)

What I aim for!!!

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I always say, never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be. ~Lisa Chase Patterson
Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing, physical, emotional or otherwise. The more you interact intimately withsomeone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours.Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realize is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life.

I always say, never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be. ~Lisa Chase Patterson

Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing, physical, emotional or otherwise. The more you interact intimately withsomeone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours.
Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realize is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life.


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      Looking after my mind, body and soul…

A decision made after my 24th birthday! 

Breaking Bad Habits, if I don’t start now when will I?

He’s (She) is everything you stand against…

Wow that statement screams a lot of things and it got me thinking. 

Who am I or anyone to say that a potential mate is not up to scratch? Isn’t that being judgmental and believing that we are somehow superior? On the other hand as a female I have been always been told to have standards, so you can understand ones conflict as we grow older & wiser. I’m sure you’ve all heard of 'Fifty Shades of Grey' by E L James, well this book also got me thinking (I’ve done a lot of this recently). He may look like an Adonis and seem like an Adonis however underneath the surface may lurk flaws that you have to ask yourself are you willing to accept. Everyone is well within their rights to decline accepting ones flaws, but if you keep declining offers or should I say potential mates due to their flaws surely that says something about you and not the other person. 

Understanding and accepting that we all come from different walks of life and therefore have different needs is key to accepting our diversity. I believe as long as the person has the same or 80% of the values you hold it can work. I’m a female that will not marry for money but for love. So as long as you have drive, ambition etc etc then I can work with that. Material items don’t last forever neither will they keep me warm at night. 

I write from a place where I have given all kinds of the opposite sex a chance regardless of circumstance, which is why I say minimum 80% of our values MUST match! I will not reduce that percentage because I would be reducing who I am and what I stand for, however rest assured that the 80% is not full of irrelevant or frivolous traits or characteristics but it is full of what I know I deserve and require to start the family life that I have always dreamed of…

Going to finally publish some of the posts in my drafts!

      It is only Tuesday and I’ve already had two job interviews and for that alone HE deserves all the glory, praise & honor!

— A grateful heart…

A Letter To Women…

Found this on http://www.nigerianwedding.org/a-letter-to-women/ and just had to share…

Dear women,

You may respond by saying that men cannot speak on women’s clothing, but I assure you that it has become as much an issue for me as it is for you. I’m asking that you wear more clothes. It is becoming increasingly difficult for me to look at you as a woman. I want to tell you that the less you wear, the more of an object you become, and the more conservatively you dress, the more of a woman you are. You may reply: “What, then, are you asking for? Do you want me to veil myself as the ancients did? Can I not be presentable? Do you want me to just stay inside?”

There are still men who cherish a chaste woman before a “presentable” woman, a virgin before a diva and a commitment before instant gratification. A woman used to be honored for her virginity; now she hates herself for it. A woman’s chastity used to be her attractiveness, her security, her character and her virginity, her beauty. You ask why men are no longer chivalrous. When was the last time your actions demanded chivalry? You ask why you are treated like an object. Why wouldn’t you be objectified?

It is increasingly difficult for me to look at you without disrespecting you with my eyes. What else do you want me to think of when you wear skin-tight clothing? You have stripped yourself of everything that made you beautiful. You have offered yourself to many men and wonder why I do not treat you like the only woman in the world. You chose the “bad boy” and wonder why you never have any “luck” with real men. You make men into animals and ask why they cannot tame their appetite. You feel empowered when you live with no strings attached and ask why you are so lonely.

I want to look at you and not at your body. I want to talk to you without having to play a flirting game. I want to make marriage the ends of our relationship and not a future contingency. I want to desire you for your virtue, not your body. I want to love your character, not your mask. There are still some real men. You do not see them because your actions do not demand them.

Can you sacrifice fashion in order for me to treat you like a real woman?

By Brendan Rhatican


So what do you guys think? Personally I love it! I am all for individuality and expression but I also think the world we live in today doesn’t give room for that! We have more carbon copies & clones rather than beauty on an individual level.